Each time I have the opportunity to counsel men on relationship and
sexuality, quite a large number of them want a decent, God-fearing, nice
and financially-dependent lady as a wife, but not a sexually naive
virgin. They reason that such a lady will definitely be a thorn in the
flesh on the wedding night. They compare the task of handling a virgin
on the bed
with that of teaching an elephant how to dance. Putting it precisely,
many guys are not ready to start fussing with a sexually-naive lady on
their wedding nights.
Many argue that they are not ready to face another load of emotional stress after overcoming the stress that
wedding preparations
had put on them. They also dread the teaching rituals of every other
night of the relationship. But this is actually the best part of the
game. Why would you prefer some other fellow to help you act the lead
role in the drama?. It is the person that acts the lead role that
becomes the star and the super star.
